Put Yourself First, Not Last

Put Yourself First, Not Last

Hey guys! My name is Patrick Cogen and in this video
I’m going to share with you why you have to put yourself first and not last so stay tuned… If you are new to this channel be sure to
hit that subscribe button and the notification bell so you can take your life to the next
level. Let me ask you a question. How can you take care of your family your
friends or your organization if you are not able to take care of yourself? If you don’t take care of yourself if you
don’t put yourself first someone else will use you for their own dreams. You need to take everything you have right
now and make the best out of it. Take your money your energy and all resources
you have and put them into yourself. Start improving and working on yourself every
single day. If you are not reaching your full potential
every day you are wasting your time. This is easy to say but much harder to do. You see we are influenced by our past and
different fears that are holding us back from taking action. We have developed some kind of habit or pattern
that we are repeating subconsciously. We are doing something we are not even aware
of and we feel stuck in one place and we can’t move forward. It can be fear of unknown fear of failure
fear of success or even fear of disappointing somebody. It can also be something we did in the past
and we are still thinking about it to this day. We can’ get over it. Whatever it is for you you need to find it
out and start being aware of it. When you are not aware of something you can’t
change it. When you finally have a word that describes
this thing you hate about yourself or this thing that triggers you or that fear that
is holding you back from taking action or whatever it may be that’s where your power comes. Now you know exactly what is controlling you and if you can identify this pattern of yours or this habit that makes you miserable or
that makes you lose your power then you can start to go back and ask yourself:
Where did I first start doing this? And what was the action that triggered it? Because that’s the root of the problem and
when you can expose all of that including emotions behind it now you have the ability to change it forever. You need to learn to take responsibity for
yourself and don’t blame others for your situation. Because if you put responsibility to their
hands you can’t do anything about it. But if you take responsibility into your own
hands now there is something you can do about it right? “I’m not tired because I slept for just 4
hours I’m tired because I went to bed too late.” Or “I’m not late because there was traffic
I’m late because I didn’t leave early enough when I knew this could happen.” When you take full responsibility for yourself
that is the most empowering thing you can do at any stage of your life. Whether you are trying to take care of your
health wealth relationships or spiritual life. No matter what you do in life you have to
take responsibility and put yourself first and not last. Sometimes we don’t put ourselves on the first
place just because we want to please other people. We put fake masks and try to please others
because we don’t know who we are and we don’t have any dreams. This can happen bacause of one of the reasons
I mentioned before or because we are in reactive mode and all day we are distracted by our
phones social media emails or other people. We don’t have time for ourselves anymore and
we don’t even realize it. Really think about that. Where was the last time you were by yourself
and you thought about all these amazing things you want to see or achieve? When you know who you are and you have dreams
you wanna follow that idea of pleasing other people becomes less and less useful and attractive
to you. When you put yourself first and you start
following your own dreams and do what you wanna do not what others want you to do that’s
where magic happens. I want to thank you guys for watching this
video. If you guys do want to check out more videos
like this I will put links in the description below so go ahead and check them out! If you guys enjoyed this video like it comment
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  1. Thank you for supporting the channel! If you enjoy videos like this one, be sure to share it with your friends. Hope everyone is having an outstanding day! ๐Ÿ™‚

    – Patrick

  2. Hey Patrick, thank you for the good questions and tips! Keep up the good job on youtube ๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿ‘ Any more uploads coming up?

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